What's a Bridesmaid to do??

I have had several requests to give some information to the bridesmaids about what they are expected to do for the bride before and during the wedding day.

One of the main things to remember about being a bridesmaid prior to the wedding is to be as helpful and supportive as possible to the bride. There is much to do before the big day. One of the most common is assisting the Maid of Honor as she plans the bridal shower and the bachelorette party. This is a great way to get involved and help out.

Be prepared to help the bride choose decorations, and help pick out the bridesmaids dresses.

This is good for you because not only are you supporting the bride, but you can offer your opinion, and not get stuck with bad dresses that you don't want to wear. You can also help by making sure you are on time to all of your dress fittings. And, if the groom doesn't want to help pick out gifts for the registry, offer to accompany the bride. She will definitely appreciate your help!

One last thing for bridesmaids to do before the big day, is to be as informed as possible. If you are informed, family and friends will know they can come to you with questions, rather than pester the bride and groom. Also, if there is a rehearsal, the bridesmaid should attend on time and offer to help tie up any loose ends.

That ties up a few of the things bridesmaids should do before the wedding day. Next, I'll let you all know what bridesmaids should do on the day of the wedding. Check back soon for more info!